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May 5
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E376 | Tips If You Feel Stuck at Your Jo...

Brett Bartholomew
About this episode

Everything is okay at work, but… yeah, work is fine—I just don’t know what I’m going to do.

We’ve all felt like that at some point in our careers. Maybe you’re in that place right now. Call it a rut, stagnation, or just a funk. You’re motivated. You’re grateful. But you also want more. More fulfillment, more autonomy, maybe even a title change and a bigger office. You want to feel like your strengths are being seen and put to use. When that doesn't happen, dissatisfaction can start to seep into everything else—negatively impacting your mental health and personal life.

So what do you do with that? 

In this short episode, Brett breaks down how to get (and stay) unstuck, move forward with intention, and take ownership without letting that ugly feeling of bitterness creep in.

What You’ll Learn:

  • Why the premortem matters and how it keeps you from crashing
  • Getting out of the entitlement trap around promotions
  • How to discuss feelings of stagnation with leadership while still holding yourself accountable
  • Establishing your non-negotiables to keep your head clear and your sanity intact
  • Your need to decompress and the key elements required to truly unplug

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Struggling with anxiety before a big presentation? Leading difficult meetings? Trying to figure out how to handle a staff issue, or even a challenge at home? One of our 15 coaches has been there and dealt with that.

This is real-world guidance, tailored to your needs, on your schedule. Nothing cookie-cutter about it.

Every leader needs a coach. The best ones know when to ask for help.

Learn more at artofcoaching.com/mentoring. We’d love to help.

Related Episodes:

E242 | Annie Duke: Quit! - The Power of Knowing When to Walk Away

E353 | What to Do If You Feel Like You’re Stagnating

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