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Feb 2023
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The Simple Art Of Subtracting To Get Mor...

THE ART OF CHARM
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In today’s episode, we cover the science of subtraction with Leidy Klotz. Leidy studies the science of design, his research has appeared in both Nature and Science, and his book, Subtract: The Untapped Science of Less, was ranked as one of the most influential titles in the fields of design and behavioral science. As humans, we gravitate toward acquiring th ... Show More
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