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Apr 2025
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DBT and Limerence

Michelle Henderson and Kate Sherman
About this episode

Kate and Michelle talk about limerence (the state of being infatuated or obsessed with another person) by answering a series of listener questions about the topic and discussing how DBT skills can help when this is being experienced.

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