What do you actually want to feel during sex? On today’s best-of episode, my friends Celeste Hirshman & Danielle Harel, co-authors of Coming Together: Embracing Your Core Desires for Sexual Fulfillment and Long-Term Compatibility, help reveal your core desires – your personal, psychological motivation for having sex, and how to get that feeling in the moment ... Show More
Oct 6
The Oral Sex Skill Nobody Teaches
Great oral sex isn’t about mastering a technique, memorizing tutorials, or finding one magic trick. It’s about being present enough to listen to your partner’s body. In this episode, I’m sharing how to build a sexual language with your partner through attention, communication, an ... Show More
18m 12s
Sep 30
What Nobody Taught You About Vaginas
Sexual communication isn’t a sign that something is wrong—it’s how sex gets better. When your partner says “slow down,” “stay right there,” or asks for something different, they aren’t rejecting you. They’re giving you the roadmap to what feels good for them right now. In this ep ... Show More
22m 53s
Apr 2025
EP436 - How to Have a Sex Party
Welcome to Episode 436 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Danielle Harel and Celeste Hirschman, co-founders of the Somatica Institute, who speak to me about sex parties. In this episode, we discuss the evolving landscape of sexual exploration, intentio ... Show More
33m 34s
Aug 2021
Sex as Self-Care: How to Make Pleasure Your Default
Have you ever wondered how to get your sexy back and feel good in the process? Between work, the kids and their activities, and taking care of your aging parents, you fall into bed exhausted every night. You remember a time when sex was the best thing ever, but now, you can take ... Show More
55m 7s
Aug 2021
Ask A Sexologist! The Marriage Episode
Join Devi Ward Erickson and her delightful team of Certified Sexperts: Karen of Explore The Art of Tantra, Rosie Bitts and Lucia Vasquez as they answer listener’s questions about:Sexual fantasies - the good, the bad, and the consensual?Can sexual chemistry be learned?Can Tantra h ... Show More
55m 3s
Feb 2025
A Night Of Kink, Desire & Unforgettable Pleasure
Hello lovely listeners, Miss K here. 😈 Ever had a night so hot it leaves you craving more? That’s exactly what happened when I leaned into my desires with someone who knew exactly what they were doing. From the art of planning a date right to the rush of being seen, desired, and ... Show More
26m 4s
Jan 2022
487. Sexual Pleasure + Clearing Blocks in Partnership
Sex carries so much currency in our internal and external landscapes. For many, sexuality is cloaked in shame, fear, or heady expectations that leave us feeling short-changed and disempowered. Fortunately, the tides are shifting with the help of pioneers like Dr. Kate Balestrieri ... Show More
1h 30m
Jun 2025
You May Also Like: Sex Ed with DB
<p> We’re dropping in with an episode from <em>Sex Ed with DB</em>, a podcast all about inclusive, pleasure-focused sex ed. In this episode, host Danielle Bezalel sits down with Dr. Emily Nagoski — bestselling author of <em>Come As You Are</em> — to talk about what it really take ... Show More
51m 55s