I took the Myer-Briggs Test

this week i come to the recent realization that i have control issues, which is deeply inconvenient because i genuinely thought i was one of the least controlling people. i get into the difference between trying to control other people and trying to control yourself, why fear mak ... Show More

this week i talk about why saying no has always been so hard for me and what it’s cost me. i get into abstinence, therapy, relationships, and this pattern of changing yourself to fit other people's expectations. I talk about self-betrayal, the shame of staying in things too long, ... Show More

this week i talk about moving to new york, feeling completely untethered, and what happens when you finally reach the version of life you always imagined for yourself and realize you still have no clue what comes next. i get into fear, uncertainty, why i think some of the best th ... Show More

you are unique 

I can say with a pretty good amount of certainty that the person you are today has a lot to do with the people around you. From toddler to teenager we absorb our surroundings, those we've followed since knee high, our influences. Some good, some could be better but in the end, yo ... Show More

I'm LGBT. 

I am not prefect, I have flaws like everybody else. I am a diamond under pressure. 

Today, I'm going doing something a little bit different. As our flock grows, I know that some of you may not know much about me or my story - where I came from. So today I'm going to share with you a little bit about me. I'm sharing this with you so that you can see that where yo ... Show More

Beetlejuice is another one of our favorites, and who can forget Winona Ryder’s iconic role?! When she utters this quote, we utter it to ourselves as well. We are all strange and unusual, but how do we deal with it? How do we live in the world while knowing there’s another one jus ... Show More

so… i’m pretty. this might be a weird thing to say but i think it’s an important one. i spent too much of my life not recognizing my own beauty. i let negative beliefs and body dysmorphia rule me. not anymore, baby ! i like my eyes and my lips and my boobs and my hips and my hair ... Show More

today i'm going to be sharing with you some of my unpopular opinions. i love unpopular opinions. i love when people come out of the woodwork to say, you know what, i'm not like the rest of y'all. i'm different. i like debating things. so, let's begin. 

I’m ugly 

An introduction to who I am and what this podcast is