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Nov 2022
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How You Listen Matters as Much as How Yo...

Guy Harris
About this episode

The filter you apply when you listen to another person matters as much as the way you adjust your delivery for them to hear you better.

The filter you apply when you listen to another person matters as much as the way you adjust your delivery for them to hear you better.

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