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Apr 2025
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Little Happier: Easy Answers or Hard Tru...

Gretchen Rubin / The Onward Project
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When we’re trying to make a point, it’s often more effective to tell a story than to deliver a lecture. Example: an episode from the popular TV show “Better Call Saul” memorably illustrates the important truth that we’re probably better off assigning a complex problem to the person who acknowledges the difficulties rather than to the person who offers suspic ... Show More
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