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Apr 2025
55m 34s

The Twice-Exceptional Life: Autism, Moth...

REID
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Stop caring about what other parents think about your parenting because it works for you, it works for your kids, and that is all that matters as long as you aren't causing any physical harm. Do what works for your family. - Kori Tomelden


In this episode of Inside the Aspergers Studio, host Reid Miles engages in a candid conversation with Kori Tomelden, a mother of two autistic daughters who is herself neurodivergent. Kori shares her personal journey of being diagnosed with ADHD and autism, highlighting the challenges and frustrations she faced with the concept of autism level classifications. The discussion delves into managing ADHD and autism in adults, the complexities of sensory issues, and the significance of finding special interests for autistic children. Kori's insights are invaluable, offering a firsthand perspective on raising neurodivergent children as an autistic parent, and her experiences shed light on the need for better understanding and tailored support for neurodivergent individuals. Kori's openness and relatable experiences make this episode a must-listen for parents of neurodivergent children, providing practical insights and fostering empathy while navigating the unique journey of raising neurodivergent kids.,In this episode of Inside the Aspergers Studio, host Reid Miles hosts Kori Tomlden, a mother of two autistic daughters who shares her personal journey of being diagnosed with ADHD and autism. Kori discusses the challenges she faced with the concept of autism level classifications and provides insights into managing ADHD and autism in adults, sensory issues, and finding special interests for autistic children. Her firsthand experiences offer valuable perspectives on raising neurodivergent children as an autistic parent, highlighting the need for better understanding and tailored support for neurodivergent individuals. Kori's relatable insights make this episode essential listening for parents of neurodivergent children, providing practical advice and fostering empathy in navigating the unique journey of raising neurodivergent kids.


  • Seek out a developmental pediatrician or specialist if you suspect your child may be neurodivergent and in need of testing for conditions such as autism or ADHD.

  • Consider enrolling your child in programs or services that can provide early intervention and support, such as speech therapy, occupational therapy, or individual family service plans.

  • Prioritize self-care and schedule time for yourself as a mother raising neurodivergent children, recognizing that it is not selfish to take time for your own well-being.

  • Advocate for your child's needs at school and do not hesitate to be persistent in seeking the necessary accommodations and support for their education.

  • Embrace your unique parenting style and do not be swayed by the judgment of others, focusing on what works best for your family and your children's well-being.


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