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Apr 2025
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Attracting unavailable partners? How to ...

Alyssa Zander
About this episode

Do you keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners, struggle with feeling abandoned, or constantly doubt your own judgment in relationships? In this episode, I guide Sierra, a member of our Codependency Alchemy community, through a powerful healing process after a painful breakup. Sierra openly shares her experience navigating feelings of abandonment, betrayal, and shame after a promising relationship ended abruptly. Using shadow work and inner child healing, Sierra reconnects with her younger selves, explores the roots of her shame and self-worth struggles, and learns to integrate their unmet needs into her present life. You'll gain practical strategies for increasing self-awareness, tracking relationship patterns, and making conscious decisions to stop cycles of emotional pain and trauma bonds.

This episode is for you if:

* You're healing from a difficult breakup or emotional abandonment.

* You repeatedly attract emotionally unavailable partners.

* You struggle with shame, low self-worth, or trusting your intuition.

* You're seeking actionable steps to shift unhealthy relationship patterns through inner healing.

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