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Apr 2025
1h 28m

How to Transmute Sexual Energy as a Coup...

Kim Anami
About this episode

Through my work, I’ve seen people self-heal everything from fibroids, cysts and endometriosis, to erectile issues to difficult periods and menopause and depression to massive weight loss (orgasms over Ozempic, yo!).

How?

By transmuting their sexual energy. They learn to consciously harvest this energy and direct it into their bodies and their lives.

We’ve seen people revitalize their careers, magnetize massive business opportunities and boost their income exponentially.

Remember our Multi-Million Dollar Blow Job episode? How could you ever forget? 

We’ve also watched people alchemize their trauma—even deep sexual abuse—through this work. 

THAT’S how powerful it is.

You can do every one of these things through the power of the holy fuck.

In today’s episode, we’re speaking with Well-F**ked All Star couple Colleen and Jessie.

They’ve learned to consciously direct their sexual energy and use it for everything from physical healing in their bodies (deep throating for the win!) and channeling this energy into their careers to make more cash.

We cover: 

  • Life with three young kids and daily sex 
  • Religious upbringing: Sex is God’s gift vs. it’s shameful and bad 
  • Alchemizing stuck blocks 
  • Throat and voice restrictions 
  • Radical honesty
  • What happens when a masculine woman meets a man more masculine than her? 
  • “He’s got it. He’s got me. I can completely trust him.” 
  • Daily sex. At least once a day. 
  • “The day normally starts off with some sort of blow job. That’s the wake-up.” 
  • Plugging into each other for energy 
  • Well-f**ked parents = well-behaved children 
  • “Even though there’s a storm of life going around me, I have a centering point. My penis is my centering point.”
  • “Colleen might have had a rough day and she’ll say, “I need to suck your cock for five minutes and then go make dinner.”
  • Band-Aids and quick fixes vs. permanent healing

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  • Clearing of relationship blocks
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