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Mar 2025
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302. Understanding Imposter Syndrome in ...

Gary Miles
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In this insightful episode of The Free Lawyer, host Gary Miles welcomes Lawrence Eichen, a New Jersey attorney, speaker, and consultant specializing in imposter syndrome. Lawrence shares his personal journey with imposter syndrome as a former programmer who transitioned to law, offering valuable strategies to help lawyers identify and overcome this common challenge that affects even the most accomplished legal professionals.Key Topics Covered:

  • Definition of imposter syndrome and why it's particularly prevalent in the legal profession
  • The connection between perfectionism and imposter syndrome
  • How imposter syndrome limits lawyers' potential and affects performance in negotiations and trials
  • Practical strategies for managing and overcoming imposter syndrome
  • Why imposter syndrome often doesn't diminish with experience or success - and may actually intensify


    Takeaways for Lawyers:

    • Reframe negative self-talk: Instead of "fake it till you make it," say "I'll handle it"
    • Document achievements to reference during moments of self-doubt
    • Don't suffer in silence - share your feelings with trusted colleagues
    • Asking for help is a sign of maturity, not incompetence
    • Practice self-compassion while working through imposter syndrome

    Lawrence D. Eichen, Esq. is an attorney, speaker, and consultant. As an attorney, Mr. Eichen’s experience includes litigating a wide variety of civil and criminal matters.

    Additionally, he has served for over 20 years as a mediator for the Dispute Resolution Program in Morris County, NJ. He has litigated and negotiated well over 1,000 cases during his 30-year career.

    As a speaker, Mr. Eichen delivers engaging presentations to associations, organizations, and educational institutions on Mastering the Art of Negotiation; Defeating Imposter Syndrome; and Mastering the Art of Powerful Presentations.

    As a consultant, he provides advanced training to businesses and organizations, and private coaching to professionals, executives, and entrepreneurs. Mr. Eichen is a certified Rethinking Impostor SyndromeTM coach.

    He is also the owner of FirstClassCLE.com, an approved provider of Continuing Legal Education courses by the New Jersey Supreme Court Board on Continuing Legal Education. He provides CLE courses to attorneys on negotiation and other areas of the law.

    Would you like to learn more about Breaking Free or order your copy? https://www.garymiles.net/break-free

     Would you like to schedule a complimentary discovery call? You can do so here: https://calendly.com/garymiles-successcoach/one-one-discovery-call




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