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Mar 2025
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Anxiety Recovery: Acceptance Is Better ...

Drew Linsalata
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When struggling with chronic anxiety or anxiety disorders, our instinct is often to search for ways to control, manage, or eliminate our symptoms. But what if that approach is actually keeping us stuck?

This week we're looking at the fundamental difference between acceptance-based strategies and control/management-based approaches to anxiety recovery. Drawing from both research evidence and real-world experiences of anxiety sufferers, we'll explain why acceptance consistently produces better long-term outcomes than trying to control our internal experiences.

You'll learn:

  • The critical distinction between externally-generated stress and internally-generated anxiety
  • Why popular "anxiety hacks" and nervous system regulation techniques often backfire for disordered anxiety
  • What acceptance actually means (and what it doesn't)
  • The paradox of how accepting anxiety can ultimately lead to feeling less anxious
  • Why it's difficult to combine acceptance and control strategies

Whether you're tired of collecting coping techniques that only provide temporary relief or you're curious about a different approach to anxiety recovery, this episode offers practical insights into a more sustainable path forward—one that doesn't depend on trying to manually control your thoughts, feelings, or bodily sensations.

Remember: there are no wrong experiences in anxiety recovery, only wins or learning opportunities. Whatever small step you take today toward facing rather than retreating from your fears counts.

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https://theanxioustruth.com/314

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