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Mar 2025
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You Don't Stop Estrangement Just By Sayi...

Calling Home
About this episode

Ok, I go on a little rant in this one because I am so tired of people trying to remain totally neutral about family estrangement. Obviously estrangement is bad. It's not an ideal outcome. No one wants to experience it. And, sometimes it is the only choice. In this episode I cover:

  • how abuse is actually quite common in families
  • why saying estrangement is "bad" isn't going to solve anything
  • what we actually need to do to prevent estrangement in families


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