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Nov 2024
58m 35s

The Simple Tool That Will Transform Your...

Mel Robbins
About this episode

Today, Mel is sharing exactly what you can do to improve the dynamic within your family.

Whether it’s disagreements over politics, someone who always has to be in the center of attention, or just pressure to make the limited time fun, family get-togethers can be hard.

You’ll learn Mel’s favorite tool, The Let Them Theory, to stop getting upset, bothered, or angry with your family, and what you can do instead.

This episode is a masterclass in how to improve your relationships with your family, so you can create stronger, more positive, and peaceful connections.

For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page.

To order Mel’s new book The Let Them Theory, click here.

If you liked this personal episode on family dynamics and creating lasting connection, despite the differences, listen to this episode next: How To Create Better Relationships: 6 Surprising Lessons From 28 Years Of Marriage

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