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Mar 2025
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In this compelling episode of "Women of Impact," host Lisa Bilyeu welcomes Chase Hughes, a renowned expert in human behavior and interrogation techniques, to delve into the art of spotting manipulators and understanding the psychology behind their tactics. Chase brings his deep knowledge to the table, offering insights that go beyond the surface. They dissect how to spot red flags in relationships, particularly focusing on identifying narcissists and psychopaths in the early stages of dating—a subject that resonates with many of Lisa’s audience. Chase provides practical advice for women to protect themselves in potentially harmful relationships.


The conversation goes in-depth into the tactics manipulators use, exploring cognitive blind spots and the mental gymnastics people perform to justify poor relationship choices. Lisa and Chase navigate through valuable questions to ask on first dates and warning signs to look out for, ensuring listeners walk away equipped with the knowledge to make safer choices in their personal lives.


SHOWNOTES

00:00 Chase Hughes Introduction

00:47 Spotting Narcissists on a First Date

01:51 Cognitive Blind Spots in Relationships

03:02 Differentiating Insecurity from Psychopathy

05:25 Physical Cues of Manipulation

11:00 Warning Signs of Narcissistic Behavior


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