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Feb 2025
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45% Of Young Men Have Never Asked Someon...

Connor Beaton
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Talking point: dating, relationships, risk

I recently came across some work by Alexander (aka @DatePsych), where he put together some fascinating data. Turns out 45% of men between 18-25 haven't asked a woman out. Ever. What's the deal? Well, here are two of my theories, and I'd love to hear yours.

Link to the study: https://datepsychology.com/risk-aversion-and-dating/

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