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Nov 2025
1h 27m

Is Having a Boyfriend Cringe Now? - Rob ...

Chris Williamson
About this episode
Rob Henderson holds a PhD in psychology from the University of Cambridge and is a Senior Fellow at the Manhattan Institute. When did having a boyfriend become cringe? For as long as men have been men and women have been women, finding a partner to share life with has been one of humanity’s oldest goals. So what changed? Why has wanting connection become som ... Show More
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