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Mar 2025
56m 23s

How To Help Your Angry Child

Nurtured First
About this episode

Scott and Jess explore anger in children (and adults), breaking down why children get angry, how anger is often masked by other emotions, and the role of genetics and environment in shaping behaviour. The episode provides hope for parents struggling with intergenerational anger and practical tools for helping kids learn to cope with overwhelming emotions. 


If you want to help your child learn tools to cope with their anger, check out The Anger Toolkit here. 


Get 10% OFF parenting courses and kids' printable activities at Nurtured First using the code ROBOTUNICORN.


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Credits:

Editing by The Pod Cabin 

Artwork by Wallflower Studio 

Production by Nurtured First 



Learn more about The Anger Course here!

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