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Mar 2025
51m 19s

accepting your mediocrity: self-sabotage...

SEPHY AND WING
About this episode

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on mirrorballing, masking, and defence mechanisms, identity crises, self-sabotaging, and a fear of failure vs. fear of success. ✷

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