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Feb 2025
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Alanis Morissette in conversation with D...

Alanis Morissette
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Alanis sat with relational experts Dr. John Gottman and Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman and discussed love in all its forms, as well as consistent challenges that can plague our relationships and how to work through them together.  In this conversation, they dive into topics ranging from the importance of maintaining curiosity with others to how to maintain a connection when things get hard. etc join us as we go for it. love you

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