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Feb 2025
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不时夜谈|《隔壁房间》:跨越时间与生死的女性友谊

不合时宜TheWeirdo
About this episode

【主播的话】

夜谈回归了。这期夜谈我们从最近一部让我们深有感触的电影《隔壁房间》(The Room Next Door)聊起。

电影讲述两位曾经同为记者的女主在经历不同人生轨迹后,因癌症重新相聚。玛塔身患癌症,不堪痛苦,希望英格瑞能在隔壁房间陪伴她走向生命的尽头。这个故事让我们开始思考,到底是什么让生命值得离开?在生命的最后时刻,我们该如何抉择?女性之间的友谊如何让我们看到新的可能?

【本期主播】

若含:微博@_R若含

磬:微博@王磬

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本期剧透】

00:00 介绍主题:本期从电影《隔壁房间》切入,探讨生命、身体自主权与友谊。

02:28 推荐电影的原因和近期频繁面对生死话题的感受。

06:16 深入电影细节,讨论片中三次提及的詹姆斯·乔伊斯《亡人》结尾与雪花意象,以及纽约与死亡之间的复杂联系。

08:49 探讨电影核心话题: “什么让生命值得离开”。

12:04 分享纽约见闻,探讨纽约生活与孤独及陪伴的关系。

19:03 讨论社会对死亡的想象,生育与养老观念的代际差异。

24:51 分享朋友间的支持与陪伴,以及电影对各自人生规划的影响。

32:12 分享身体炎症问题及解决方案。

37:15 讨论女性友谊的深度与广度,交流对死亡的思考。

42:36 分析电影中的男性形象和导演意图。

47:41 对死亡和当下生活的思考。

【延展阅读】

电影《隔壁房间》(The Room Next Door),2024年上映

【本期音乐】

Painting Room-Kevin MacLeod

River Meditation-Jason Shaw

【Logo设计】刘刘(ins: imjanuary)

【文字】沈诗婷

【节目制作】方改则

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