In this episode, we tackle the challenging yet crucial topic of reintegrating sex into a marriage after betrayal. Rebecca Vander Meer and Traci Wright, two Pure Desire Clinicians, share why this is such a struggle for many couples and the common mistakes that can hinder progress. From rushing the process to overlooking emotional intimacy, we explore what cou ... Show More
Jun 23
468 - Recognizing The Lies We Believe w/ Sam Jolman
In today’s episode, we explore how our sexual behaviors are shaped long before any crisis moment—and why engaging our personal story of sexual formation is essential for lasting freedom. Our guest, Sam Jolman, challenges the belief that desire is dangerous, revealing how shame, p ... Show More
1 h
Jun 16
467 - What is Godly Sexuality? W/ Joshua Broome
In this episode, we dive into the connection between faith, identity, and sexuality, exploring why separating sex from our life in Christ can lead to confusion, brokenness, and misplaced identity. With guest, Joshua Broome, we discuss how today’s western culture often defines wor ... Show More
1h 8m
Jun 9
466 - Building Emotional Stability & Resilience
In this episode of the Pure Desire Podcast, we dive into the essential topic of emotional stability and its role in recovery, relationships, and personal growth. We explore how to assess whether we are managing our emotions or being managed by them, and why there are no inherentl ... Show More
59m 4s
Sep 2023
How to Supercharge the Emotional Intimacy in Your Marriage
<p>In today's episode, we explore communication, understanding your partner, and fostering mutual spiritual, physical, sexual, and recreational intimacy. It's not just about theory, but it's packed with practical steps including incoorporating daily connections int ... Show More
19m 14s
Aug 2025
How to Rebuild Intimacy and Heal Relationships After Betrayal, with Sam Tielemans
<p>In this episode of the Unhooked Podcast, I'm joined once again by Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Sam Tielemans, who has dedicated over 15 years to helping men break free from porn addiction and rebuild emotional intimacy. We delve into practical strategies for cre ... Show More
52m 39s