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May 2024
40m 1s

#403 - Sex After Infidelity

DR. LISA MARIE BOBBY
About this episode

How do you have a healthy sexual relationship with your partner after the trauma of infidelity? It's possible, and in fact, going through the process of healing your relationship together can bring you closer in unexpected ways. 

But the road to recovery is not an easy one, especially when it comes to sex. Many couples struggle to heal, reconnect, and feel safe again after feeling violated by an affair. But there is a path to repair — for your relationship and your sex life — and that's what we're talking about on today's episode. 

Tune in to learn about: 

  • 04:32 The Mental and Emotional Well-being of the Injured Party
  • 06:00 Moving Through a Structured Healing Process
  • 07:51 Stages of Sex After Infidelity
  • 12:34 Managing Trauma Triggers During Sexual Encounters
  • 19:16 The Desire for Detailed Sexual Information
  • 29:45 Positive Growth and Conversations About Sexuality
  • 34:37 Educating Yourself and Making Informed Decisions
And more. If you are struggling with sex after infidelity, I hope this episode gives you hope and direction. You deserve it. 
 
xoxo, 
 
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 
 
P.S. — Want support with healing from infidelity? Schedule a free consultation: https://www.growingself.com/schedule-free-consultation/ 
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