logo
episode-header-image
Feb 2025
1h 7m

101: Turn His Avoidance Into Obsession: ...

Margarita Nazarenko
About this episode

Why do avoidant men run from intimacy, and how can you get them to bond without chasing? In this powerful conversation, Adam Lane Smith breaks down the core fears driving avoidant attachment styles and shares actionable tips to flip the script — so he starts chasing you. We talk about the emotional triggers that make men commit, the biggest mistakes women make when dating avoidants, and how to create deep, lasting bonds (without sacrificing your self-worth).

💖 If you've ever wondered, "Why won't he commit?" — this one's for you.

In this episode:

  • The psychology behind avoidant attachment
  • How to stop chasing and make him pursue you
  • Emotional intimacy hacks that deepen connection
  • The key to turning avoidance into obsession

🎧 Tune in now to Being Her — and don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and leave a review!

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Up next
Jul 6
120: 10 Brutal Truths About Women No One Wants to Hear (This Will Make You Mad)
10 Brutal Truths About Women No One Wants to Hear (This Will Make You Mad — But It’s True)See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. 
21m 32s
Jun 29
119: 12 Lies That Are Holding You Back (And What to Believe Instead)
We’ve all absorbed silent lies that shape how we see ourselves — and how small we play in life, love, and success. In this episode, I’m breaking down 12 beliefs that secretly hold women back (like “you’re running out of time” or “you’re too much”)… and giving you the truth, the m ... Show More
25m 44s
Jun 22
118: 20 Truths That Will Soothe Your Soul
20 Truths That Will Soothe Your SoulSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. 
33m 2s
Recommended Episodes
Mar 2025
Adam Lane Smith & Shallon Lester: Avoidant Attachment Red Flags – “Never Trust Words Alone”
In this episode, Adam Lane Smith and Shallon Lester expose the hidden red flags of avoidant attachment and why trusting words alone can lead to heartbreak. They break down the toxic dating patterns that leave women feeling unworthy, discuss why men rarely change without consequen ... Show More
1h 16m
Sep 2024
WHY MEN PULL AWAY - The Psychology of a Man's Mind
Find out why this episode hit over 100,000 downloads on its first day—Tune in RIGHT NOW to learn the psychology of WHY MEN ALWAYS PULL AWAY IN RELATIONSHIPS!!! whether beginning, middle, or end--it seems to always happen at some point.  That is why Violetta is bringing you part t ... Show More
38m 58s
May 29
Jessica Baum & Adam Lane Smith: Why Emotional Safety Is the Key to Real Love
In this powerful episode, attachment expert Jessica Baum joins Adam Lane Smith to unpack one of the most essential yet misunderstood pillars of a healthy relationship: emotional safety. Together, they explore why safety isn’t just a “nice to have” in love, but a biological and ps ... Show More
1h 19m
Jun 6
STOP Doing These 3 Things If You Want Him to Commit | Margarita Nazarenko & Adam Lane Smith
In this conversation, Adam welcomes Margarita Nazarenko, a viral voice of tough love on relationships, for a deep, honest dialogue about anxious attachment, emotional patterns, and why so many women end up chasing emotionally unavailable men. Margarita offers clarity, accountabil ... Show More
55m 50s
Jun 9
How To Release The Patterns That BLOCK Love & Keep You Single | Matthew Hussey
Leave an Amazon Rating or Review for my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy!Matthew Hussey, the renowned relationship expert and bestselling author, delivers raw truth about modern love that will shake your dating beliefs to the core. In this deeply personal conversa ... Show More
1h 10m
Feb 2025
How To Let Go Of Toxic Love & Attract A Healthy Relationship
I'm going on tour! Come see The School of Greatness LIVE in person!Get my new book Make Money Easy here!Four renowned experts unpack why we stay in toxic relationships and reveal the hidden psychological patterns that keep us stuck in cycles of emotional dependency. Bestselling a ... Show More
1h 25m
Jul 7
Dr. Orna Gurlanik: Struggling to Communicate With Your Partner? THIS One Habit Could Slowly Be Destroying Your Relationship! (Here’s How to Catch It Before It’s Too Late!)
Do you ever feel like you're having the same fight over and over again? Why is it so hard to be in a relationship with someone who is different from you? Today, Jay sits down with Dr. Orna Guralnik — the world-renowned clinical psychologist, psychoanalyst, and lead therapist on t ... Show More
1h 42m
Jun 2024
SOG EP 1623 BONUS: The Red Flags You Keep Ignoring! (Don’t Let Men Treat You Like This!!) - Sadia Khan & Matthew Hussey
Have you listened to the FULL EPISODE yet?"If you don't value yourself and you just value a feeling, well, you may as well do a bunch of drugs someday."In this eye-opening episode, world-renowned dating expert Matthew Hussey uncovers the hidden psychological forces that lead us t ... Show More
6m 19s
Aug 2024
#154: 4 Reasons You Keep Attracting Situationships
In today's episode, we’re exploring the common patterns and beliefs that lead people into situationships — those ambiguous, frustrating "almost-relationships" that never quite become something more.  If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in a situationship and wondered why it ... Show More
20m 56s
Mar 2025
Spot a Liar in 5 Seconds! How to Read Anyone Like a Human Lie Detector | Chase Hughes PT 1
In this compelling episode of "Women of Impact," host Lisa Bilyeu welcomes Chase Hughes, a renowned expert in human behavior and interrogation techniques, to delve into the art of spotting manipulators and understanding the psychology behind their tactics. Chase brings his deep k ... Show More
48m 39s