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Feb 2025
19m 40s

184. Cultivating High Self-Worth Friends...

Alissa Boyer
About this episode

In this episode, I discuss the challenges highly sensitive people (HSPs) often face in friendships, particularly the tendency to overgive and feel unappreciated. I share insights from my work with clients who struggle with abandonment wounds and the patterns of overcompensating to avoid rejection. By healing your self-worth and understanding your own needs, you can shift away from overgiving and create healthier, more balanced friendships.

What you'll learn:

  • How overgiving in friendships can stem from abandonment wounds and insecurity
  • The importance of assessing your energy in friendships and whether you're giving from a genuine place or out of anxiety
  • Why it’s essential to unapologetically own your desires in friendships and not settle for unfulfilling relationships
  • How to heal your self-worth to stop feeling the need to earn love and validation through overgiving
  • The benefits of letting go of misaligned friendships and creating space for more authentic connections

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