Today, Jillian explores the profound and often painful experience of the dark night of the soul—a period of deep existential crisis triggered by major life changes such as breakups, loss, or a sense of stagnation. She breaks down the misconceptions around this challenging phase, explaining that it is not a punishment but a natural part of life’s evolution.
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Jan 19
Red Flag: The Controlling Partner
What happens when a relationship starts with intensity, reassurance, and “I’ve done the work” — and then slowly turns into jealousy, control, and emotional chaos? In this coaching session, Jillian helps a listener unpack why she keeps choosing emotionally unstable partners, how e ... Show More
1h 2m
Jan 12
Dating in 2026: The Rules Have Changed
Dating in 2026 feels harder than ever—but what if the problem isn’t you, it’s how you’re approaching it? In this episode, Jillian breaks down the biggest mindset shifts she’s seen actually work with her clients—from letting go of the pressure to “find the one,” to raising your st ... Show More
30m 7s
Aug 2024
706. This is How You Move Forward After Heartbreak
If you’re heartbroken right now, this episode is for you. This week, K+L discuss the psychological and physical impacts of ending a relationship. The girls are your personal guides through the process of feeling these intense emotions, creating healthy post-breakup routines, and ... Show More
35m 50s
Oct 9
It’s Not Too Late: How to Transform Your Life at Any Moment
<p>If you’ve ever felt stuck, behind, or like you’re not living the life you’re meant to, this conversation is for you. </p><p>Today’s episode is a guide to how you can transform your life – at any moment. </p><p>Mel sits down with New York Times bestselling author, ultra-enduran ... Show More
1h 18m
Nov 13
Nikki Boyer Learns to Let Go
<p>Nikki Boyer is probably best known for the podcast and Hulu series <em>Dying for Sex</em>, which follows her best friend, Molly, as she faces losing her life to cancer. But while Molly’s life was coming to an end, Nikki was trying to create a life. Nikki shares her story of th ... Show More
37m 2s
Jan 2025
429: Coping with the Cruel World & Enduring Heartbreak
<p>In this solo Q&A episode of the <strong>Hardcore Self Help Podcast</strong>, I answer two deeply personal and important listener questions. The first comes from a trans man struggling with the impact of anti-LGBTQ+ legislation, fear for his safety, and overwhelming feelings of ... Show More
29m 27s
Feb 2025
640. Your Word Is Your Reality
If you’ve ever been through a stretch season, you know it can be a wild ride. Maybe you’re in the middle of one right now. You might be healing from heartbreak, navigating a big career move or simply having a good-ole dark night of the soul.3 months postpartum, Lindsey takes us t ... Show More
8m 6s
Mar 2024
EP76: Bridging the Gap: Connecting Physical and Mental Wellness with Ashley Randall
<p>This week, join Sarah as she delves into the fascinating connection between mental and physical health with nutrition and fitness expert, Ashley Randall. With a degree in kinesiology and certification as a fitness trainer, Ashley brings a wealth of knowledge to the discussion, ... Show More
1h 4m
<p><strong>What if your patterns didn’t define you, but showed you EXACTLY where you can grow?</strong></p><p><strong>Why do we keep choosing the same people—even when we know better?</strong></p><p><strong>If you’ve felt luckless, stuck, or so far away from the loving partnershi ... Show More
