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Feb 2025
10m 18s

The Missing Piece of Stoicism: Why Kindn...

JON BROOKS
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Modern Stoicism gets sold as self-control and grit, which leaves out the part Marcus Aurelius arguably cared about most. Donald Robertson and I talk about the missing piece: the idea that real strength shows up as kindness, and that anger is closer to weakness than to power. It is an easy philosophy to misread as cold and detached. We make the case for the o ... Show More
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