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Feb 2025
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Stoicism Isn’t Toxic, But Misunderstandi...

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In this episode, I explore Meditations 3.6 and the challenge Marcus Aurelius presents to those seeking the Good life: is there anything higher than justice, truth, temperance, and fortitude? If we find something greater, we should pursue it wholeheartedly. But if not, then we must commit ourselves fully to Virtue. I also address the common misconception that Stoicism promotes emotional repression or toxic perfectionism. True Stoicism is about disciplined reasoning, self-improvement, and moral alignment—not detachment or indifference. If the pursuit of Virtue is the highest aim, then what could be better than dedicating our lives to it?


“If you discover in the life of man something higher than justice, truth, temperance, fortitude, and generally speaking than your understanding contented with itself, where it presents you behaving by the rule of right, and satisfied with destiny, in what is assigned to you and is not yours to choose; if, I say, you see something higher than this, turn to it with all your heart and enjoy the supreme good now that it is found…” - Meditations 3.6


TAKEAWAYS

+ The highest good in Stoicism is the pursuit of Virtue—nothing else surpasses it.

+ True Stoicism is not about emotional repression but about disciplined reasoning and moral alignment.

+ The pursuit of an ideal, even if unattainable, is valuable in itself and fuels lifelong self-improvement.


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