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Jan 2025
18m 40s

Dress for the Life You Want: Confidence,...

CARA ALWILL
About this episode

Alright, let’s talk about the skeletons in our closets—literally. If your wardrobe is full of black leggings, emotional support sweatshirts (you know, the ones you wouldn’t even wear to the bodega), and clothes you’re saving for “someday,” this episode is your wake-up call. Spoiler alert: your clothes might be holding you back more than you think.

I’m sharing how I broke up with my dingy, stretched-out wardrobe and started dressing like the main character of my life now - not 10 pounds from now, not when my life was “perfect,” but today. Because here’s the truth, baby: you are 100% worthy of looking amazing and feeling confident exactly as you are.

We’ll dive into how old clothes carry old energy, why your wardrobe matters for your mindset, and how to start dressing for the life you actually want. It’s time to let go of the ghosts of laundry past and upgrade your vibe. Trust me - your future self will thank you.

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