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Jan 2025
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How to detach and end toxic cycles in 20...

Lyss Boss
About this episode

2025 is your year to focus on your mission, your goals, your life, your passions and wildest dreams - so why are you still throwing your energy into people and situations that aren't benefiting your highest good?

In this episode, I get transparent about learning how I found my purpose by realigning my energy and finding my PURPOSE and focusing on that instead of a person. I reflect on a past relationship and realize how far I've come in my healing process. Instead of going back, I focused more on my purpose and what makes ME feel good.

I cover also ways I've been able to completely shift my energy and realign myself when things feel depressing or difficult.

If you loved this episode and you're enjoying the podcast, send me a message on instagram anytime. I would love to hear from you. @dateyourselfinstead @lyss

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