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Jan 2025

40m 9s

25. Love Languages Only Traumatized Peop...

Aware and Aggravated

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10 Love Languages only people who experienced not feeling cared about will understand. Trauma warps what you think loving someone is. Extreme measures are taken to prove your love and loyalty. Understanding these love languages will protect you from completely destroying yourself to hopefully one day feel loved.

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