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Aug 2024
24m 10s

gen z has a dating problem

Christina Aaliyah
About this episode

0:00 intro

2:51 hook up culture

4:21 men are wick of women + women are sick of men

9:00 we are motivated by fear, not by hope

13:06 we don’t date people we date avatars

16:12 unlimited options

20:27 attachment styles

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