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Jan 2025
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How to Be a Niche Luxury Hot Girl, with ...

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#181. As a retiring mass-consumer, I’ve been transforming how I practice the art of shopping, collecting, gifting, etc. As “just a girl,” I’m not likely to partake in the no-buy trend I’ve seen around socials, albeit a healthy trend to partake in. That being said, I would like to be more intentional in my consumption, especially when it comes to the things I wear, interact with and see in my space every day. Enter: Caroline Stern’s concept of the “Niche Luxury Hot Girl.” Inspired by her TikTok series of the same name, we’re talking all things NLHG in today’s episode of Note to Self.


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