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Jan 2025
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Katherine Ryan: Breaking Up Felt Like Li...

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About this episode

From her humble beginnings working at Hooters in Canada, to conquering the UK's comedy scene, Katherine Ryan's journey is nothing short of inspiring.


In this candid interview, she opens up about her trials as a single mum breaking into the male-dominated stand-up world, her experiences with toxic relationships and overcoming personal setbacks, including her tragic miscarriages.


Now, reconnected with Bobby, her high school sweetheart, Katherine's story embodies deep resilience, showing us how one can turn life’s challenges into empowering insights.


Please be aware that this episode discusses sensitive topics.

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Sections:

02:16 Differences Between Life In The USA, Canada, And The UK

04:33 Katherine's Childhood And Upbringing In Canada

05:40 Growing Up In Different Communities: Katherine's Experience

07:30 What Katherine Thought About The UK As A Child

09:00 How Katherine Discovered Her Passion For Performing

09:50 What Was Katherine's Childhood Really Like?

11:15 How Katherine Built A Strong Family Bond During Childhood

12:57 Does Experiencing Trauma Make Someone A Better Comedian?

15:45 What Katherine Wanted To Become At Age 12

18:29 The Impact Of Katherine's Parents’ Divorce On Her Life

25:53 Katherine's Early Dating Experiences And Relationships

28:13 Generational Challenges: Alcohol And Violence In Katherine's Family

29:33 The Story Of Katherine's Friendship With Jessica

39:49 Behind The Scenes: Katherine's Job At Hooters

47:47 The Truth About The "Keep Love" Ad Campaign

48:39 What Happened Behind The Scenes Of The Tinder Ad

49:34 How Katherine Started Her Comedy Career At 21

51:31 Why The UK Is Considered The Stand-Up Comedy Capital Of The World

53:06 Challenges Of Starting Out As A Female Comedian In Stand-Up

55:38 Did Katherine Move To The UK For Love Or Her Career?

56:44 Starting Her Comedy Career In The UK: Katherine’s Journey

58:45 Becoming A Young Mother By Choice: Katherine's Story

1:05:10 Katherine's First TV Break With The Show Campus

1:05:51 Balancing Motherhood And A Growing Comedy Career

1:08:09 Paul’s Reaction To Katherine's 2012 Appearance On 8 Out Of 10 Cats

1:09:00 How Katherine Prepares For High-Pressure Panel Shows

1:13:45 Why Stupidity Dominates Modern Politics

1:15:59 Why Are Less Than 20% Of UK Comedians Female?

1:18:21 How Diversity Is Shaping Today’s Stand-Up Comedy Scene

1:24:22 Katherine's Relationships During Her Comedy Career Rise

1:25:40 The Shocking Story Of Child Protection Services Investigating Katherine

1:28:36 Surviving Coercive Control: Katherine’s Personal Experience

1:37:00 Katherine's Life During Her Single Years

1:38:33 Reconnecting With Her Childhood Romance: Bobby’s Story

1:43:56 How Katherine Persuaded Bobby To Move To The UK

1:45:19 Katherine And Paul's Heartbreaking Experience With Miscarriages

1:51:15 Will Katherine And Bobby Have More Kids?

1:53:07 Why Katherine And Bobby Schedule Intimacy In Their Relationship

1:55:19 How Often Do People Really Have Sex?

1:57:08 The Most Memorable Conversation Of Katherine's Life

1:59:01 Key Takeaways From Paul’s Perspective

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