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May 6
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Nick Viall on What Reality Taught Him ab...

MAYIM BIALIK
About this episode

Nick Viall (former BACHELOR star, bestselling author of “Don’t Text Your Ex Happy Birthday”, host of the chart-topping podcast The Viall Files) reveals the shocking truths behind the franchise's evolution and his own emotional journey as he navigated the process. From surviving the heartbreak of being a runner-up twice on Andi Dorfman & Kaitlyn Bristowe’s Bachelorette seasons to dealing with public vilification, Nick opens up about the psychological toll of reality TV, the need for therapists on set, and how filming the show made him question his own feelings. He dives deep into his spiritual crisis, the grief he shared with his wife after their miscarriage, and why he’s chosen to stay off social media. Plus, find out why texting your ex "Happy Birthday" is a huge mistake and more helpful dating advice and tips! You won’t want to miss his candid, eye-opening reflections on love, fame, and personal growth! 

 

Nick Viall's Podcast, The Viall Files: https://www.viallfiles.com/

 

Nick’s Viall's book, Don't Text Your Ex Happy Birthday: And Other Advice on Love, Sex, and Dating: https://www.viallfiles.com/book

 

Check out Mayim's episode of The Viall Files: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VjMoZbarBm0

 

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