What makes you feel stuck right now?
How do you tackle time-consuming tasks?
Today, Jay sits down with Grammy-nominated rapper, multi-platinum artist, and first-time author, Big Sean. This special episode marks Sean’s third appearance on the show, but this time, he’s here to share deeper insights into mental health, purpose, and his debut book, Go Higher, set to release in January 2025.
During the conversation, Big Sean reflects on his personal battles with anxiety, depression, and letting go of control. He shares the transformative role of spiritual practices in his life and how they inspired him to write a book that offers tools for self-care, growth, and purpose. Sean opens up about one of the toughest lessons he's ever had to learn — accepting the things he can't change — and how that acceptance became his pathway to peace and clarity.
Jay and Sean also explore the power of "separating self from success," where Sean explains why money isn’t the true measure of success. Instead, he defines success as the feeling of living in alignment with your purpose and positively impacting others.
In a vulnerable moment, Sean discusses the grief of experiencing a miscarriage and how he and his partner found light in the darkness. He also opens up about his journey with fatherhood, the process of quitting Adderall, and how he manages trauma through intentional strategy and meditation. From music to mindfulness, Sean reflects on his evolution as an artist, a man, and now, an author.
In this interview, you'll learn:
How to Redefine Success on Your Own Terms
How to Use Radical Acceptance to Overcome Life’s Challenges
How to Separate Self-Worth from Wealth and Achievement
How to Attract Purpose Instead of Chasing It
How to Embrace Spiritual Growth for Mental Clarity and Peace
Every challenge you face holds the seed of transformation. When you accept your reality and stop resisting, you open yourself up to new opportunities for growth. Let Big Sean’s wisdom guide you on your journey to go higher.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty
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What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
04:05 Sharing Personal Hardships Through Writing
06:36 Define Your Idea of Success
10:17 The Power of Separation?
12:41 The Kobe Mindset
16:43 Acceptance Isn’t Giving Up
20:07 Attracting Energy versus Chasing Energy
27:09 Learnings From Being a Father
31:39 Living Through Your Kids
33:33 Healing Generational Trauma
35:06 Teach Your Child to Be Confident
38:08 How Do You Become Strategic?
41:42 Effectivity in Being Strategic
45:58 Learn to Set Boundaries
49:35 Respect Your Self
52:55 Don’t Lose Yourself
55:01 Exercising Boundaries
58:00 Affirmations, Gratitude, and Journaling
01:02:44 What’s Your Meditation Practice?
01:07:00 Different Approaches to Therapy
01:08:24 Battling with Addiction and Depression
01:14:26 The Importance of Education
01:17:32 Giving Up Music
01:18:42 Last Conversation with Kanye
01:23:53 Staying Optimistic After Miscarriage
01:26:18 Finding Hope in Dark Times
01:27:34 Living with Miracles Everyday
Episode Resources:
Big Sean | Website
Big Sean | X
Big Sean | Instagram
Big Sean | Tiktok
Big Sean | Youtube
Big Sean | Facebook
Go Higher: Five Practices for Purpose, Success, and Inner Peace
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