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Jan 2025
34m 18s

Do I Want A LDR For The Wrong Reasons?

BETCHES MEDIA
About this episode
It’s a second-guessing time of year on the podcast and in the dating world! Should you go out even though you're not feeling it in the thick of winter? Should you go for it with the cute person you met in your hometown? All the kinds of questions that J&J are tackling this Friday! They play a round of “Petty or Prudent?” about texting an ex’s family that his ... Show More
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