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Jan 2025
44m 48s

the very famous athlete

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Hiiiiya! 


Today’s secret sharer is struggling to let go of an old flame (a verrrrry famous athlete) and focus on her long-term, stable, dream partner. Why is it so hard to let go of people we share a history with and care about so deeply, even when we know they’re no good for us? And is it OK to feel this way about an ex when you’re…. in a new, secure relationship? Probs not. Sigh, sometimes *love* just isn’t enough. 


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Your hosts of ‘everybody has a secret’ are Annabelle Lee (@annabe11e1ee) and Louis Hanson (@louishanson).


This episode was produced by Ruby Hall and executive-produced by Lucy Hunt.


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