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Jan 2025
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"How to Be Enough": Tackling perfectioni...

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Dr. Ellen Hendriksen, the original host of Savvy Psychologist, makes her return to the show to discuss her new book How to Be Enough. Monica dives deep with Dr. Hendriksen into the roots of perfectionism, its impact on self-worth, and practical strategies for embracing self-acceptance. Discover the two pillars of unhealthy perfectionism, how hustle culture exacerbates self-criticism, and actionable steps to move toward a healthier mindset.

Savvy Psychologist is hosted by Dr. Monica Johnson. A transcript is available at Simplecast.

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