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Jan 2025
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104. Not For TikTok Dances + Forgetting ...

Not For Everyone
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You wanted sleepover vibes? You got it. This week, Caroline and Jess discuss how giving credence to your feelings actually helps you move through the hard stuff easier, while reminding you that the made-up meaning in conflict is the scary part. They talk about the point of college being exploration, and Jess ruminates on some a cappella experiences. 

But first, ever heard of the technology adoption life cycle? Caroline talks about her TikTok misconception and Jess tells us why software updates are so important…and it’s not the reason you think. To round out the episode, they discuss male anatomy, a candy hack, and the pros and cons of knitting. Grab your blankets and pillows and get ready to gab.


This episode was produced by our prince, Abi Newhouse (@abinewhouse). ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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