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Jan 2025
56m 51s

Blow jobs are performance art with Pleas...

Danielle Bezalel, MPH: Sex Educator | Pleasure Expert | Rom-Com Critic
About this episode

DB dives headfirst into a hilarious and informative conversation with sexologist Goody Howard, MSW, MPH about oral sex, confidence inside and outside of the bedroom, and the 18 different types of orgasms! Plus, they discuss how to build a small business as a sexual health educator and how science can help us understand pleasure. ——

  • How Goody uses her academic background to build sexual confidence courses [00:15:45]

  • Goody breaks down how sexual health is a public health issue [00:16:36]

  • Goody shares her best Oral Sex 101 tips [00:19:58]

  • How to frame oral sex as a mutually pleasurable experience [00:24:14]

  • How confidence outside the bedroom impacts your sex life [00:26:54]

Find more from Goody:

IG: @AskGoody

Website: AskGoody.com

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About Sex Ed with DB:

Sex Ed with DB is a feminist podcast bringing you all the sex ed you never got through unique and entertaining storytelling, centering LGBTQ+ and BIPOC experts. We discuss topics such as birth control, pleasure, LGBTQ+ health and rights, abortion, consent, BDSM, sex and disability, HIV, sex in the media, and more. ——

Sex Ed with DB, Season 8 Team:

Creator, Host, Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB)

Producer and Communications Lead: Cathren Cohen

Associate Producer: Sadie Lidji

Marketing Coordinator: Kate Fiala

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