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Jan 2025
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Discovering Your Dating Archetype

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick
About this episode

Welcome to 2025 all! This is the year filled with abundance and finding your person...we can feel it! Because our book comes out January 28th, and we're sharing a key component of becoming your most dateable self: discovering your dating archetype! We'll discuss the 5 types of daters we see, how to leverage your super powers when dating, and how to discover what may be holding you back – so you can propel forward this year instead.

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