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Jul 2024
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In this personal and candid episode, I share my experiences with toxic friendships and the struggles of deciding whether it's time to let go. I discuss six key signs that a friendship may be unhealthy:

  1. One-sided effort: I question the balance in my friendships when I find myself constantly reaching out and making plans.
  2. Constant negativity: I explore the emotional toll of having friends who are always complaining or gossiping.
  3. Manipulative behavior: I open up about dealing with guilt-tripping and emotional manipulation from friends.
  4. Disrespecting boundaries: I delve into the importance of setting and upholding personal boundaries in friendships.
  5. Undermining my success: I discuss the impact of friends who belittle my achievements or aspirations.
  6. Dismissing my feelings: I address the challenges of having friends who downplay or ignore my emotions.


Join me as I share my journey and the valuable lessons I've learned along the way, including honest communication, self-reflection, and making tough decisions. Tune in to gain insights and advice on navigating toxic friendships and prioritizing your emotional well-being.


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