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In this insightful episode, we explore the unique needs of dismissive avoidants during and after conflict, revealing key strategies to foster reconnection and harmony.

Discover how to transform conflicts from divisive moments into opportunities for deeper understanding and closeness, using tools like direct communication, positive reinforcement, and acts of service.

Learn the art of "re-bonding" to restore trust and safety after disputes, and uncover why harmonious communication is essential for avoidants to open up.

Whether you’re navigating these dynamics yourself or in a relationship with an avoidant, this episode offers practical advice to create stronger, more secure connections.

Timestamps:

00:00:00 – Why Avoidants Shut Down During Conflict

00:00:18 – Key Needs of Avoidants After a Conflict

00:01:12 – The Role of Harmonious Communication

00:02:45 – Positive vs. Negative Conflict Dynamics

00:05:08 – Direct and Literal Communication Needs

00:06:00 – Rebonding: Acknowledgment and Appreciation

00:07:30 – Using Positive Reinforcement in Relationships

00:08:50 – Building Connection Through Lighthearted Activities

00:10:22 – Acts of Service as a Sign of Peace

00:11:45 – Validation and Encouraging Effort

00:13:50 – Healthy Communication Tools for Conflict Resolution