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Dec 2024
1h 52m

E069 - Harvard Professor's 4-Step Method...

Mike Thurston
About this episode
Joining me today is Dr. Arthur Brooks, a Harvard professor, behavioural scientist, and best-selling author known for his groundbreaking work on the science of happiness. Once a professional classical musician, Dr. Brooks made a transformative leap into academia, where he now guides the next generation of leaders in understanding what it truly means to lead a fulfilling life.

In this episode, we explore the intricate balance between success and satisfaction, the pitfalls of chasing money, fame, and power, and the surprising keys to lasting happiness. Dr. Brooks shares the role of self-reflection, the importance of boredom in finding meaning, and why spending time wisely can be more valuable than accumulating wealth. We also dive into his personal journey, from his early days in music to leading one of the world’s most influential think tanks, uncovering the life lessons that shaped his philosophy along the way.

Whether you're an entrepreneur, a lifelong learner, or simply curious about what it takes to live a purpose-driven life, this conversation with Dr. Brooks will inspire and challenge you to rethink your path to happiness.

00:00 Introduction
02:00 The ways in which entrepreneurship brings freedom
06:00 Arthur's journey from musician to behavioural scientist
12:00 Bringing happiness science to Harvard's halls
18:00 Breaking free from success hierarchies
25:00 Why meaning matters more than happiness
31:00 Learning to sit with boredom and find yourself
39:00 Finding the sweet spot between solitude and connection
46:00 Keeping faith while building a business
54:00 Spending wisely on what truly matters
01:03:00 Understanding our modern obsessions
01:17:00 The power of knowing yourself
01:24:00 How different cultures view happiness
01:30:00 Building healthy habits that last
01:37:00 Where spirituality meets meaning
01:44:00 Making better choices with money
01:50:00 The core values you should live by
01:54:00 Staying grounded in the spotlight
02:00:00 How to avoid burnout
02:10:00 Looking back on success and legacy

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