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Dec 2024
41m 22s

my husband's secret fetish

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About this episode

Happy Fridaaay! 


Now, there’s absolutely no shame in kinks! But today’s shooshie has just found out her husband of over a decade is hiding a secret fetish. It’s shaken everything she thought she knew about their shared sex life (and loving relationship), and it breaks our heart that she doesn’t feel “enough”. And, Annabelle raises a very important question: awkward acquaintance interactions. Are you a shaker, hugger or a kisser? Orrrr just plain awkies!!


Hinge is here to give you some summer holiday homework: Take. It. Slow. Yep, instead of putting pressure on yourself to achieve all of your personal and relationship goals, Hinge is encouraging us to ponder their new prompt, ”This year, I really want to…” so your profile better represents who you are today. Big thanks to Hinge for making this episode possible!


Got a secret to spill? Easy peasy! Head to everybodyhasasecret.com.au and submit it anonymously. This show is only as good as the secrets that are submitted, so keep ‘em coming!


Your hosts of ‘everybody has a secret’ are Annabelle Lee (@annabe11e1ee) and Louis Hanson (@louishanson).


This episode was produced by Ruby Hall and executive-produced by Lucy Hunt.


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We love ya guts for listening! See you next time.

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