Why won’t Jared go to therapy? We get this question often and, this week, he shares his own thought on why as well as a helpful TikTok, "Men Who Wear Masks And Struggle With Conflict" by @elisemicheals. Plus, he and Jordana are slipping more into f*ck it mode for the holidays. The first email is advice ahead of office holiday party season when your coworkers ... Show More
Yesterday
My BF Asked His Ex-Wife for Her Engagement Ring Back, What an ICK
Jared and Jordana are learning about Instagram’s new blur feature for “soft launching” couples in their new segment, Are U Up to Date? They then answer a listener’s email about asking for an engagement ring back after years of marriage and whether it’s petty or prudent. Lastly, t ... Show More
51m 53s
Oct 7
I Thought We Were in Love, But Then He Listed 20 Reasons to Break Up!
Jordana and Jared are reading through a listener’s breakup texts, and the list of reasons to end it is long! A cozy cabin weekend in the woods was not as romantic as she thought, with complaints about restaurant choices, what time to go to the farmers market, and feeling judged f ... Show More
1h 25m
Dec 2024
Can I Text An Ex Without Crossing The Line?
This week, Jordana and Dr. Naomi share their Christmas and Hanukkah traditions. Dr. Naomi explains Netflix’s The Ultimatum to Jordana, and they discuss the “social experiment” model of reality TV dating shows. Then, they announce some exciting updates to the Oversharing: Calm TF ... Show More
1h 21m
Jul 2025
WHAT'S THE BIGGEST RED FLAG IN A RELATIONSHIP?
This week, we’re getting too real about boundaries, setting standards, dating timelines, unexpected icks, and whether you can recover once you’ve gotten them.Is the ick a dealbreaker or are we just scared of emotional intimacy? How long should you actually date someone before mar ... Show More
1h 11m