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Dec 2024
1h 21m

Can I Text An Ex Without Crossing The Li...

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This week, Jordana and Dr. Naomi share their Christmas and Hanukkah traditions. Dr. Naomi explains Netflix’s The Ultimatum to Jordana, and they discuss the “social experiment” model of reality TV dating shows. Then, they announce some exciting updates to the Oversharing: Calm TF Down subscription, coming in mid-January. Our Overshare comes from a Betch who f ... Show More
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