Today, John shares a client story about a couple, Kayla and Mark, who faced a stagnant marriage. John explores themes of transformation, co-creation, and the cyclical nature of relationships, emphasizing that allowing a relationship to 'die' can lead to a stronger, more authentic partnership.
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Still Stuck on Your Ex | This is Why
Closure isn’t a door you wait to have slammed shut - it’s a bridge you build. In this episode, licensed therapist John Kim breaks the biggest “closure” myths and shows you how to move forward without an apology, a perfect explanation, or one last text. If you’ve felt stuck in rel ... Show More
15m 49s
Aug 18
From Nauseous Nights to Perfect Mornings | Life in Costa Rica
In this episode, licensed therapist John Kim takes you inside his personal journey of building a new life in Costa Rica - the highs, the lows, and the unexpected lessons about presence, clarity, and decision-making. From nausea-inducing dirt roads to perfect mornings surfing in C ... Show More
16m 12s
Jul 2024
Age Gaps, Big D*ck Energy, and Short Shorts
Today, Shaun and John discuss the concept of 'nectar' as a source of joy, and retiring the term 'Big Dick Energy.' For the Q&A, they tackle when to define the relationship and what the most appropriate age gap in relationships is. Find out more about John HERE ... Show More
1h 1m
Aug 2024
The Orgasm Gap, Anger Management, and Should We Break Up?
Today, John and Shaun talk about their recent retreat experiences, celebrity man crushes, and their first blowjobs. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: Is it a woman's responsibility to ask the man she's dating to go down on her, and how do I ... Show More
1h 13m
Jan 2025
Shared Phone Plans, Sober Dating, and Talking About Men
Today, Shaun and John talk about motorcycles, things they need to work on with their parents, feedback from their first live show, and shared phone plans. They also answer and give advice on a listener’s question: do mixed sobriety relationships work?
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1h 8m
Oct 2024
Male Sexuality, Leaving Your Marriage, and Gen Z
Today, John and Shaun talk about fear, negative feedback from listeners, asking for what you need, and male body and bedroom insecurities. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: how do you get the courage to leave a marriage, and how do you deal with jealou ... Show More
1h 8m
Nov 2024
Sex Work, Life Purpose, and Lack of Sleep
Today, Shaun and John talk about riding motorcycles, happy endings, al-anon meetings, and supporting sex workers. They also share positive feedback from their listeners, and answer a listener’s question: how do I begin self-reflecting on my tendencies to cheat?
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59m 49s
Jul 2024
Manopause, How To Flirt, and My BF Steals My Panties
Today, Shaun and John discuss hairstyle insecurities, aging, and the ethics of keeping exes' nudes. They bring on two live caller's and give advice on how to bring more flirty energy into your life, and what to do about a boyfriend's panty kink.
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56m 14s
Dec 2024
Being Childfree, Spirituality, and Disappointing Others
Today, Shaun and John talk about choosing a child-free life, fitness, spiritually, and being of service by sharing your gifts. They also answer and give advice on two listeners’ questions: where’s the line between being the best version of yourself and being lazy or selfish for p ... Show More
59m 22s