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Dec 2024
1h 21m

Anxious and Avoidant in Relationship: Th...

RICK HANSON, PH.D., FORREST HANSON
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We all have different needs for closeness and distance, for intimacy and independence. You might have heard terms like anxious or avoidant attachment to describe this, and these tendencies can create challenges - particularly when people with different needs try to relate to each other. In this episode, Dr. Rick and Forrest explore why we're drawn to people ... Show More
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